Habits
by Sign
by Stephanie Dempsey
Nobody's
perfect - all signs have their vices. Fortunately, astrology
provides valuable clues for breaking bad habits. Ending
these patterns will help you realize your full potential.
Here are some tips for conquering those negative behaviors
that get in the way of your ultimate happiness.
•
Aries Out in Front
Rams
have a habit of pushing to the front of the line, both
literally and figuratively. And while this quality has
helped Aries get ahead, it can also compromise their relationships.
Putting an animal, child or plant in their care can correct
the problem. As soon as this sign's nurturing qualities
are cultivated, their selfishness will diminish.
•
Taurean Trash
Bulls
love clutter. Being surrounded by all their possessions
gives them a sense of security. It also creates headaches,
confusion, and chaos. Storage systems that keep their
stuff on display will prevent this sign from strewing
their stuff all over the house. Stacking baskets, glass
jars, and open shelving can promote organization.
•
Nerve-Wracking Twins
Geminis
are the nail-biters of the zodiac. Twins are self-conscious
about their hands, and need to keep them busy at all times.
Activities like knitting, carving, or bead work provide
welcome distractions. Weekly manicures will also keep
temptation at bay. Twins are less likely to gnaw their
cuticles when they've just paid for their upkeep!
•
Cancers and the Candyman
If
you've ever wondered how Cancers stay so sweet, take a
look at their sugar intake. This sign loves cookies, candy,
and ice cream. An occasional indulgence is fine, but too
much dessert can take a toll on waist lines and energy
levels. What Crabs are really seeking is oral gratification.
Sugar-free gum or dried fruit provides a healthy distraction
from candy crunching.
• Lavish Leos
The
guy who's sitting next to you in the elegant restaurant,
shouting to his personal assistant on his cell phone?
Probably a Leo. It's only natural that a sign that is
blessed with creativity, charm and wit feels tempted to
show off. Actually, this desire to brag is rooted in insecurity.
The sooner Lions learn to compliment others, the quicker
they'll receive the praise they crave.
•
Virgos Fear Filth
These
nit-pickers sometimes compromise their own pleasure for
the sake of perfection. Deep down inside, these folks
are really sensualists at heart. They need to learn that
it is better to feel good than to look good. Allocating
a few minutes each day for fun but messy activities like
baking, painting, or sculpting can cure Virgos of their
fear of filth.
•
Libras Love to Shop
Librans
gave birth to the term "shopaholic". These folks
have every credit card known to man. And while their taste
is undeniably impeccable, it can get them in trouble at
bankruptcy court. What's really at stake here is a quest
for beauty. Enjoying simple but inexpensive pleasures
like nature walks and museums can quell the urge to splurge.
•
Strictly Scorpios
Nobody
carries a grudge better than this sign. Unfortunately,
hanging on to resentments has a way of crowding out love,
happiness, and trust. In order for a Scorpio to let go
of anger, they must first practice self-care. Getting
a massage every month or writing in a journal each day
will soften this sign's heart and enable forgiveness.
•
Brutally Honest Sagittarius
Archers
have a bad habit of telling the truth. And while these
folks have the best intentions, that doesn't take the
sting out of comments like, "Gee, those pants make
you look fat!" or "Were you drunk when you wrote
this report?" The best way for Archers to cultivate
tact is through prodigious study. Etiquette books will
definitely help!
•
Capricorns Can't Quit
This
sign is the original workaholic. Many Capricorns fear
that poverty will set in the moment they stop toiling.
Keeping a gratitude journal can break this terrible habit.
The more Capricorn becomes aware of their non-material
blessings, the healthier their behavior will become. No
more cutting vacations short for the sake of work!
•
Antisocial Aquarius
Water-bearers
get into the habit of creating completely self-sufficient
lives. Unfortunately, this makes it difficult for them
to achieve intimacy. Basically, Aquarians are afraid that
relationships will compromise their independence. Fortunately,
these folks love to experiment. By treating intimacy as
an exercise, this sign can relinquish control for the
sake of loving relationships.
•
Pickled Pisces
As
a water sign, it's only natural that Pisceans find comfort
in liquids. When those liquids have a high alcohol content,
problems can ensue. Naturally, a twelve-step program can
be of enormous benefit here. Meditation and yoga can help,
too, as they allow Pisces to achieve a healthy sense of
nirvana. That's all these Fish are really seeking.
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